How to advise the modern 'blended' family

  • To understand what issues might arise from blended families.
  • To be able to explain the different legal implications of inheritance.
  • To be able to demonstrate knowledge of trusts and wills
How to advise the modern 'blended' family

Gone are the days where the nuclear family represented the most common family structure in the UK. 

Households containing multiple families were the fastest growing type of household over the last two decades having increased by three quarters to 297,000 households in 2019 according to the Office of National Statistics.

The growth in the number of multi-family households could reflect a growth in multi-generational families choosing to live together or simply out of necessity because of housing affordability, childcare responsibilities and caring for older relatives.

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The impact of the coronavirus pandemic is surely set to increase these types of household structures in the years ahead. 

While it is difficult to say what a ‘modern family’ looks like today, in 2019 two thirds of the families were married or civil partner couple families in the UK and it would be fair to say that the most common of those were made up of blended family arrangements.

Unlike a nuclear family, this unit is made of two parents and their children from previous marriages, for example a woman with two children from a previous marriage marrying with a man with three children from a previous marriage.

Our current Prime Minister Boris Johnson and his fiancée Carrie Symonds would be very much part of a blended family arrangement with their son, Wilfred, having five step brothers and sisters making up his family unit.

It is clear that problems faced by families in modern society whatever structure they take, are quite often financial and families want the opportunity to look after themselves within their own family unit rather than look to the government for assistance.

Often parents want to know what provisions they need to make for their stepchildren, if any, and what financial obligations they have as a result of being part of a blended family unit.

As well as the practical and emotional issues that can arise from blended family arrangements, there are also considerable financial implications that must be considered. We are often asked to advise on the following: 

  • Stepchildren: what happens if a parent would prefer to leave an estate to their stepchildren as opposed to their blood children?
  • Are stepparents obliged to provide financial provision?

It is a truth generally acknowledged that the principle of testamentary freedom means a person can leave assets in a will to whomever they wish, not necessarily to those who might expect an inheritance.

This is not a worldwide rule and testamentary freedom differs from jurisdiction to jurisdiction; some countries do not allow complete testamentary freedom, and instead operate by the principle of forced heirship.

This means certain portions of the estate must be left to specific family members (ordinarily a spouse and or their children, and or parents); the beneficiaries are consequently afforded a level of protection they might not otherwise have.